What is an alpha female and how to handle her?
ALPHA FEMALE – We often use this word to describe the dominant male or female in a pack of animal and here’s what it means when someone is an alpha.
We often relate an alpha female as a powerful and successful women. They are described as intimidating but being an alpha doesn’t necessarily relate to this. In a new definition, an alpha woman is a powerful and assertive woman.
She is confident rooted from her intelligence and intellect. This is a state of mind as she strives for work-life balance while, at the same time, being successful in her chosen career. Just like the Alpha star, she shines the brightest in her own constellation.
She is strong, enjoys leadership roles, sought after, ambitious, great learners, has this sense of self-identity, knows what she wants, self-sufficient, have goals, dependable, and can quickly adapt to various situations.
How to deal with her in a relationship?
In a workplace setting, she is the go-getter but in a relationship, she is the type to give no time for bickering and petty fights. What she does is tell you what she wants and expects. Once this is done, it’s up to you on how to keep your end of the bargain.
For some men, this kind is not always the easiest to handle. He might step back from intimidation and from this perspective, those who feel intimidated by these characteristics are not really worth the effort. These characteristics are not the relationship red flags.
Loving her would require some special approaches. Topping the list is understanding her personality. Once you get a grasp of understanding regarding her personality, you’ll know how she behaves, reacts, and live. You can determine her strength, weaknesses, what they enjoy the most, and others that are essential for a strong foundation.
Another is respect her boundaries. Being the partner of someone who is an Alpha does not give you the right to cross these boundaries. Just like many of us, she is also human. She may appear strong most of the time but at times, she would need a shoulder to cry on. Be her safe space where she can be transparent and fragile. Listen to her and support her.
Never compete against her. Your lover is your partner in anything and not your rival or enemy. As an alpha woman, she is not the type to compete especially with her partner. What she actually would do is support your dreams. Be each other’s top supporter and grow together.
Back then, women are expected to be laid-back and just to be the stay-at-home individuals. But in the world today, due to education and technology, they are taking their confidence to a whole new level changing the narratives.
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