Women are said to be observant when it comes to men. And like men, they also have standards who to like and love. But oftentimes, women cannot tell if a man is a real man or just a boy. If you’re a woman and stuck in dating, then you SHOULD read this before you could feel any regrets.
How to actually tell if someone is a real man? Is it enough to know that he’s working? His muscles? How about a boy? Does he cry a lot? Or he’s more than you?
So, here’s the difference you should figure out before getting into a man:
1. Visit his place and when it’s pig sty, he’s a boy; if it’s well kept, he’s a man.
2. A boy can’t handle finances and is often broke. A man knows how to prioritize his money and payments, and actually has a savings plan.
3. A man has a career path in mind and is working his way towards that. A boy floats from job to job with unemployed stints in between.
4. A man will confront a situation in person, and will fight with you in a way that works towards a solution. Boys will flight with you over text or messaging and is more concerned about being right than finding a solution.
5. Boys will throw temper tantrums. Men know how to channel their emotions into productive results.
6. A boy will flirt with other women and check out girls in front of you. Men will make you feel cherished.
7. A man will have his own place and provides for himself. A boy still lives with his parents. I don’t care if he has a separate entrance.
8. A real man will treat you like his girlfriend. A cousin treats you like a cousin, or a bro.
9. A boy gets jealous and insecure with any guy you talk to. A man is confident in your relationship and trusts you.
10. A boy doesn’t have ambitions – he would rather play video games all day and drink all night. A man has ambitions and interests that don’t involve a bottle or a screen.
11. With a boy, you’ll feel like his mother. A man will make you feel like a partner.
12. A man won’t pressure you to take the risk. A boy will “forget” and hope you won’t make him, but isn’t ready for children.
13. A boy is impetuous and impulsive, not thinking of consequence. A real man will think ahead and weigh the pros and cons.
14. A real man will commit to you, whereas a boy will keep his options open.
15. A boy will look for a girl with a hot bod. A man looks for a woman that has the qualities of a person who he would want to share his life with.
(h/t): Diply
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Do a “real woman” next that should be entertaining. Girls will throw temper tantrums , real women know how to channel their emotions into productive results….I guess they can stop blaming PMS. Real women have a career path in mind and is working his way towards that..I’ve met very few girls who knew right away what they wanted to do for a living. Real women don’t need to be pampered with and spoiled with gifts on valentines day..A girl will look for a guy with a hot bod. A woman looks for a man that has the qualities of a person who she would want to share her life with. Guess that’s why I know so many guys with all these qualities except good looks that are single. Oops any real women left?
hi jox, thanks for the suggestion. i’ll write a blog post about it as soon as possible. cheers!